THE IMPORTANCE OF A SUPPORT SYSTEM
The onset of gynecomastia, in most cases, starts at puberty. Gynecomastia today is known by many as “moobs” (man boobs). If a boy is evaluated by his doctor at this time, he will most likely be told that he will outgrow this condition in a year or two. In many cases this is true; however at such a young age a year or two seems like forever, especially with a condition that can be the source of cruel taunting from classmates. How does a boy undress for gym, go to the beach, play skins vs. shirts, and have a “normal” life in the meantime? The feeling of isolation and wondering “what is wrong with me?” can be the cause of unbelievable emotional stress and depression.  If they are among the more fortunate boys, they will outgrow the condition and will be able to go on with a normal life. Unfortunately, in many cases young boys do not outgrow this condition and it can become a lifelong source of continual embarrassment and adjustments in their lifestyle. For a few they may have only a mild to moderate case which would make them candidates for the “Light Procedure” which is much less invasive.

Many boys will try to hide their condition even from family members, due to embarrassment or thinking that it is their own fault. It takes a very aware parent or family member to identify the source of their child’s misery. Not all boys with gynecomastia have emotional issues; some manage to lead a normal life. But for many who are approaching puberty and are seeing changes in their body, having their breasts develop can be a very frightening experience. Imagine at such a young age going to your parents and asking for help, not knowing if there even is anything that can be done. Dr. Delgado is able to tell, in most cases, if a boy will outgrow his gynecomastia, or if it is more permanent.
We know of such a patient who went to his father while in High School and asked him, if instead of spending money on college, if he could have corrective surgery. His Father was shocked to find that his son was so miserable, he had no idea! The father took out a line of credit; his son had gynecomastia surgery and was able to go on to college.
Not all stories have such a happy ending. Some boys do not have a supportive family member who can understand the agony they go through. You never know unless you try, many parents step up to the plate when presented with the problem. However, for those who do not have support at home, I would like to recommend a source of outside support. At www.gynecomastia.org you will find many men of all ages facing the problems and emotional issues that gynecomastia can present. There are chat rooms and forums where almost all subjects are addressed. It is free to sign up, you will be allowed to post questions and concerns, and you will be amazed at the support you will find from others who have faced similar situations.